{"id":495,"date":"2016-11-07T01:01:36","date_gmt":"2016-11-07T01:01:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nichedemosites.com\/Catch_A_Cheating_Lover\/uncategorized\/the-revenge-affair-characteristics-of-the-adulterer"},"modified":"2021-08-13T04:08:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-13T04:08:36","slug":"characteristics-of-the-adulterer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nichedemosites.com\/Catch_A_Cheating_Lover\/characteristics-of-the-adulterer\/","title":{"rendered":"Characteristics of the Adulterer"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

“I Want to Get Back at Him\/Her<\/em>” is one of 6 kinds of affairs I outline in my E-book.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is the “revenge affair<\/em>.” It occurs in a marriage in which one feels slighted in some manner and seeks revenge by engaging in an affair.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It is less a movement toward the other person and more a movement away from one’s spouse. The offending spouse usually lacks the skills of personal confrontation or is frightened by the prospect of someone “getting upset<\/em>.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When evaluating this kind of affair, make a distinction between revenge and rage. Revenge is not rage. Rage comes from a different source, as outlined in one of the other kinds of affairs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here are some characteristics of the person who uses infidelity as revenge:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Usually is rather unpredictable and erratic in his behavior.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Has a hard time making decisions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Is often impatient and irritable when things don’t go her way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Some of the resentment seems to “seep out<\/em>” along the edges, maybe when you least expect it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Engages in teasing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Can be stubborn and unyielding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. May often take oppositional view and pride himself on being contrary or taking an unpopular stance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Can have moments of impulsive behavior and be labeled high-strung or tightly wired.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Has an underlying worldview that is pessimistic. Glass is half empty.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Has a tendency to wine or complain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. May have moments of sullenness and dejection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

12. Women may respond very intensely during their menstrual cycle. Men may appear very moody at certain times of the month.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

13. Manipulates others with unpredictability and demandingness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

14. Family of origin often marked by factions and sibling rivalry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

15. Has difficulty with intimacy since her behavior patterns push people away.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

“I Want to Get Back at Him\/Her” is one of 6 kinds of affairs I outline in my E-book. This is the “revenge affair.” It occurs in a marriage in which one feels slighted in some manner and seeks revenge by engaging in an affair. It is less a movement toward the other person and more a movement away from one’s spouse. The offending spouse usually lacks the skills of personal confrontation or is frightened by the…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":529,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[25],"tags":[46,27,23,24,47,34],"class_list":["post-495","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-surviving-an-affair","tag-adulterer","tag-affair","tag-infidelity","tag-marriage","tag-resentment","tag-revenge"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t