Every day I get an email similar to this:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
“There is this girl I’m talking to. I really want her to be my girlfriend. What can I say to her?”<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Here is my answer: Nothing you can “say” will make her fall in love with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In fact, you will usually “blow it” if you attempt to let a girl know how you feel (especially if it’s early on.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Here’s the problem most guys run into –<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Once they like a girl they think they need to express this to her – they think that “if she knows how much I like her” she’ll want to be my girlfriend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
WRONG.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Love is psychological.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Women (and men) fall in love due to a psychological process that occurs in our own mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Women don’t fall in love while they are with you –<\/p>\n\n\n\n
She falls in love while she is away from you thinking about you –<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And the more you can get her thinking about you -. The more she will begin to convince herself that<\/p>\n\n\n\n
she is in love with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In the “Seduction Weapons” portion of The Scrambler I teach 12 weapons of seduction –<\/p>\n\n\n\n
These are 12 things that will keep her thoughts focused on YOU when you’re not around.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
12 Weapons of Seduction<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The first and easiest of the 12 weapons is ambiguity –<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Women love drama (how else do you think there would be 5 different Housewives of (insert city) shows
on TV?)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you want to keep her attention – you’ve got to provide her that drama she craves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ambiguity is a great way to do this. You are sending her mixed signals. You are showing her multiple sides of your personality –<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sometimes you make her feel like she excites you –<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sometimes you make her feel like you are losing interest and she bores you –<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sound cruel?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Well, if you think back on the girls you fell in love with – Chances are she made you feel this exact way. Chances are she sent a lot of mixed signals.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am I correct?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I didn’t invent the game. But I play to win.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
There are 11 more seduction weapons in Unlock Her Legs (some much sneakier than this.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Remember “attention” is a commodity. We only have so much of it. He who occupies the most of her attention wins.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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