Breaking up with a loved one can be devastating and in a bid to help us cope with the pain, many will go to any great lengths and try just about anything if it means a chance to get back with our ex.

So does this new concept and theory of text messaging actually work and win our ex round? For some yes it does, it really does work. But there are also those who have failed as far as texting their ex back goes. So what went wrong?

Without doubt there is a process to it all and a few simple steps that you really should take when it comes to trying your hand at texting back your ex. It’s normal that after splitting up our emotions are still quite raw, so maybe sending a text the day after the break up is not quite a good idea. Surely it would be a lot more effective if we play it cool and give ourselves some time in which to do just that and cool down.

Taking some time to think about what we want to achieve will pay off and prevent you from writing off a possible reunion. The first text messages need to be well thought out and leave a positive impression. The last thing you need is to come over desperate and insecure as this will only result in your message going straight to the delete message option. If you want your texts to work you need to read up on the information out there about how to text back your ex. It has been tried and tested that text messaging can work but in order to get anywhere you need to make sure you are doing all the right things and ultimately texting all the right words.