Despite much controversy over the whole concept of using text messages to reconnect or rebuild a relationship with your ex, text messages are seen as a powerful means of communication. Moreover, the author of the downloadable PDF eBook, Michael Fiore, has become something of an expert in the text message world. His book provides detailed steps on what you should text and what you should not text when it comes to texting back your ex. However, it really is up to the individual to discover the power of text messages and decide whether they are good or bad.

Perhaps the first thing to take in to account when texting your ex is that you might not necessarily get an immediate response. The main thing you can really hope for it that at the very least your text with be seen and read. It is important that you think about what you want to say as it is possible to go about it all wrong and end up pushing your ex further away.

If you want positive results from your text messages then you need to come up with some good first messages. So you’ll need to avoid coming across as needy, desperate or insecure. Here are a few key points you might like to consider. Avoid nothing texts that lead to a dead end in terms of receiving a response or reply. Try to keep your text light hearted and open ended as this with create a positive experience. Maybe include a subtle compliment, again nothing too overpowering as you don’t want to create the wrong impression. And most important of all, do not expect a response straight away and text back demanding why they haven’t replied. Pressure texts are bad texts so keep those first messages good ones and see how you could actually text your ex back into your life.