{"id":113,"date":"2017-02-05T11:54:32","date_gmt":"2017-02-05T11:54:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/localhost\/pst28\/online-dating-is-not-a-contest\/"},"modified":"2017-04-19T08:17:49","modified_gmt":"2017-04-19T08:17:49","slug":"online-dating-is-not-a-contest","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nichedemosites.com\/Online_Dating_Advice\/online-dating-is-not-a-contest\/","title":{"rendered":"Online Dating is Not a Contest"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Online dating is not a competition between competing males for the attention of a female.\u00a0Grow up.\u00a0Change your mind set from &#8220;winning&#8221; to &#8220;searching&#8221;.\u00a0This isn&#8217;t high school.\u00a0You are all grown up and have been for quite some time, now.\u00a0Your attitude is the most important asset you have.\u00a0You should like yourself and not concentrate of all of the things that aren&#8217;t YOUR idea of the perfect guy&#8230; the one the all women want.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>What is that women want, you ask?\u00a0That&#8217;s the age old question.\u00a0Being of the female persuasion myself, I can tell you a few things women want and don&#8217;t want.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Women want a man to be confident&#8230; NOT an arrogant jerk.\u00a0There&#8217;s a big difference.\u00a0You need to like yourself and not be self depreciating but you don&#8217;t need to come across like you believe that you are a gift to them from God and have just fallen from the sky.\u00a0They don&#8217;t want you to think that THEY just fell from heaven and are some kind of perfect being, either.\u00a0They can&#8217;t live up to that expectation. <\/p>\n<p>Women want a communicator. The &#8220;strong silent type&#8221; really isn&#8217;t appealing at all.\u00a0They think you probably don&#8217;t have an original thought in your head and you probably haven&#8217;t heard a word they said, either or that you just don&#8217;t care what they said or didn&#8217;t even hear what they said.\u00a0They want you to be interesting enough to want to know more about you and they want you to think that they are interesting enough to ask intelligent questions about what is important to them, too.<\/p>\n<p>Women do NOT want to be a prize to be won.\u00a0They don&#8217;t want to be a trophy. They want to be the ONE woman that you want to be with.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Online dating is not a competition between competing males for the attention of a female.\u00a0Grow up.\u00a0Change your mind set from &#8220;winning&#8221; to &#8220;searching&#8221;.\u00a0This isn&#8217;t high school.\u00a0You are all grown up and have been for quite some time, now.\u00a0Your attitude is the most important asset you have.\u00a0You should like yourself and not concentrate of all of the things that aren&#8217;t YOUR idea of the perfect guy&#8230; the one the all women want.\u00a0 What is that women want, you&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":158,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-113","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-men"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/nichedemosites.com\/Online_Dating_Advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/nichedemosites.com\/Online_Dating_Advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/nichedemosites.com\/Online_Dating_Advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nichedemosites.com\/Online_Dating_Advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nichedemosites.com\/Online_Dating_Advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=113"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/nichedemosites.com\/Online_Dating_Advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":147,"href":"https:\/\/nichedemosites.com\/Online_Dating_Advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113\/revisions\/147"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nichedemosites.com\/Online_Dating_Advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/158"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/nichedemosites.com\/Online_Dating_Advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=113"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nichedemosites.com\/Online_Dating_Advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=113"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nichedemosites.com\/Online_Dating_Advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=113"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}