So how do you stay calm, composed and maintain self esteem in a tough environment? Here are some tips you may to consider as a starter guide to self improvement.<\/p>\n
Imagine yourself as a Dart Board. Everything and everyone else around you may become Dart Pins, at one point or another. These dart pins will destroy your self esteem and pull you down in ways you won\u2019t even remember. Don\u2019t let them destroy you, or get the best of you. So which dart pins should you avoid?<\/p>\n
Dart Pin #1 : Negative Work Environment<\/strong><\/p>\n Beware of \u201cdog eat dog\u201d theory where everyone else is fighting just to get ahead. This is where non-appreciative people usually thrive. No one will appreciate your contributions even if you miss lunch and dinner, and stay up late. Most of the time you get to work too much without getting help from people concerned. Stay out of this, it will ruin your self esteem. Competition is at stake anywhere. Be healthy enough to compete, but in a healthy competition that is.<\/p>\n Dart Pin #2: Other People\u2019s Behavior<\/strong><\/p>\n Bulldozers, brown nosers, gossipmongers, whiners, backstabbers, snipers, people walking wounded, controllers, naggers, complainers, exploders, patronizers, sluffers\u2026 all these kinds of people will pose bad vibes for your self esteem, as well as to your self improvement scheme.<\/p>\n Dart Pin #3: Changing Environment<\/strong><\/p>\n You can\u2019t be a green bug on a brown field. Changes challenge our paradigms. It tests our flexibility, adaptability and alters the way we think. Changes will make life difficult for awhile, it may cause stress but it will help us find ways to improve our selves. Change will be there forever, we must be susceptible to it.<\/p>\n Dart Pin #4: Past Experience<\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s okay to cry and say \u201couch!\u201d when we experience pain. But don\u2019t let pain transform itself into fear. It might grab you by the tail and swing you around. Treat each failure and mistake as a lesson.<\/p>\n Dart Pin #5: Negative World View Dart Pin #6: Determination Theory<\/strong><\/p>\n The way you are and your behavioral traits is said to be a mixed end product of your inherited traits (genetics), your upbringing (psychic), and your environmental surroundings such as your spouse, the company, the economy or your circle of friends. You have your own identity. If your father is a failure, it doesn\u2019t mean you have to be a failure too. Learn from other people\u2019s experience, so you\u2019ll never have to encounter the same mistakes.<\/p>\n Sometimes, you may want to wonder if some people are born leaders or positive thinkers. NO. Being positive, and staying positive is a choice. Building self esteem and drawing lines for self improvement is a choice, not a rule or a talent. God wouldn\u2019t come down from heaven and tell you \u2013 \u201cGeorge, you may now have the permission to build self esteem and improve your self.\u201d<\/p>\n In life, its hard to stay tough specially when things and people around you keep pulling you down. When we get to the battle field, we should choose the right luggage to bring and armors to use, and pick those that are bullet proof. Life\u2019s options give us arrays of more options. Along the battle, we will get hit and bruised.<\/p>\n And wearing a bullet proof armor ideally means \u2018self change\u2019. The kind of change which comes from within. Voluntarily. Armor or Self Change changes 3 things: our attitude, our behavior and our way of thinking.<\/p>\n Building self esteem will eventually lead to self improvement if we start to become responsible for who we are, what we have and what we do. Its like a flame that should gradually spread like a brush fire from inside and out.<\/p>\n When we develop self esteem, we take control of our mission, values and discipline. Self esteem brings about self improvement, true assessment, and determination. So how do you start putting up the building blocks of self esteem? Be positive. Be contented and happy. Be appreciative. Never miss an opportunity to compliment. 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\nLook at what you\u2019re looking at. Don\u2019t wrap yourself up with all the negativities of the world. In building self esteem, we must learn how to make the best out of worst situations.<\/p>\n